Aidan's Apology

Hi, Mom!

I'm sorry for demanding and saying,"Now!" today. I promise never to demand again and I'll always ask nicely since I've been practicing

that with Margaret. Hope you forgive me!

Love, Aidan

Autism or not, summer break is hard on everyone!  The constant strains of, "I'm hungry, I'm thirsty, I'm bored" ring consistently.  A critical part of my forthcoming book, are Aidan's words.  He has graduated from writing pencil to paper in his "Purple Notebook" and sends me email messages now.  

This is his apology from yesterday.

Have a great day my Autism "partners-in-crime"

xo Lisa

End of Life

Last night, Aidan and I addressed a group of third year university students, along with a "fellow Autism Mom & Advocate."  It was great for these budding professionals to see and hear what Autism looks like up close.

Later, over wine (mom's need their vices) my Autism "partner-in-crime" stated that we never mentioned "End of Life" planning.  I nodded and agreed.

What happens to our Autistic offspring once we are gone.  It has given me sleepless nights on more than one occasion.  Is it fair to put that pressure on their siblings?  Aidan's oldest brother, my dear Samuel, never faltered and said, "I will always be his wing-man."  Wow.

The few glasses shared, on my back deck, in all appearances, just seemed like a regular chat among ladies. 

 We weren't discussing fashion trends, work or vacations - 

the focus was our children after we are gone.

In my first manuscript draft of my book, I never discussed this topic - well, time to add a chapter.

Autism Awesomeness!

Autism does not mean, "I can't."  Children on the spectrum, can achieve great things, and enjoy  simple pleasures.  Check out some of Aidan's adventures, and he has many more to share. 

As parents and caregivers, we must stay positive, we owe it to our kids dealing with this spectrum that has so many unknowns.