Our recent family trip to Disneyland in California taught me that while discrimination does exist for our populations on the Autism Spectrum - the true magic of Disney shone through. My past Disney experiences were many years ago with Aidan's oldest brother (now 22) and those visits back in the early 1990's in Florida were very different compared to planning a trip for a 13 year old on the Spectrum to the famous theme park.
What did Disney teach me?
1. That they care that "our kids" have a positive and supported experience (thank you Disability Access Pass).
2. That a very patient "Pluto" was willing to wait for a nervous teen (with faint moustache) to pose for a photo opportunity.
3. That people did not stare or comment while a thrilled Aidan talked to and cuddled his newest "friend" our buddy "Doug" from "Up."
And most importantly, that as parents, we watched Aidan's younger brother encourage him to hit those rides like Hyper Space Mountain! (I watched by the sidelines). Owen also was not really into the Disney Characters, but patiently watched the Pixar Parade and got excited and cheered with his brother. He also took his "own" money, that was an accumulation of gifts from family and bought his brother some souvenir cars from "Cars Land."
Other passengers on rides gave "knuckles" for a successful ride on a roller coaster and commented quietly on how cute "Doug" was sticking out with his cone of shame. I was expecting some comments as we were escorted directly on rides (while others endured the lines) and nothing - no sneers, no stares - it was accepted without any conflict.
Aidan never stopped smiling the entire three day visit and I truly thank the magic of Disney. Their policies and procedures make it possible for our Spectrum kids and all those with disabilities have a positive experience, well done! I only hope that other attractions follow the lead that Disney has started.
